Part 9 & 10 of 10 part blog...

Part 9 and 10 of 10 part Blog…


I started writing this 10 part Blog almost a year ago.

If you have been following it the theme was a journey of transformation.

You should always be your own advocate in your life.

Using Mind over matter will help you improve your life on so many levels and situations.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind_over_matter

Throughout 2013 and currently 2014 many have found change in work/ career and relationships (personal and romantic).

Health issues have come to the surface both physical and mental.

These situations are being brought to the surface so they have the opportunity to for treatment and healing.

These situations are happening to most of us right now.

Anxieties have become more intense for most people are not aware of the shifting of energy in our Universe.

Not being aware can cause many of us to blow things out of proportions.

We can create our own nightmares by tormenting ourselves with self-doubt and dreadful scenarios.

It is time to remove all negativity from your life.

This is up to you to sort out and weed out what serves you no good.

We are in a time of turning negatives into positives.

We need to learn to play life as a game that should be enjoyed.

It is ok to have fun and smile.

Let go of those negative Nancy’s in your life that constantly make you feel bad and sad!

Seeking counseling, therapy, treatment, checkups, and advice in all areas of your life is suggested.

If we do not make an effort to change we can sit stuck in the muddy waters of our lives.

We do not want to fall victim of stagnation.

Be your own change!

Rise up like a phoenix!


Blessings,
Melanie

Breaking through Relationship Bondage

Breaking through Relationship Bondage



You feel a connection with another person on such a deep level.

 You feel as though this person is your Soul mate.

You have been told you have a karmic connection or a soul connection.

 You always feel him or her and your love for them is immense.

You would swim across an ocean and back for them.

The problem is they are not responding toward you in the same way.

When they are in it it’s good but when they fall out they are hurtful and distant.

It is hard to comprehend because you have such a connection with them.

 The hard part is accepting the relationship for what it is or walking away with the fear of losing it.

You are not losing anything if you are not being emotionally fulfilled.

 To make this kind of relationship work is patience and finding balance.

If the person you feel this connection with is not moving fast enough for you then allow them to walk their path alone.

They chose to not fully let you go because they feel this connection also.

They feel you will always be there for them in a crisis of their life.

You cannot always be the go to person if they are not willing to be committed.

This kind of relationship is becoming too popular with my clients.

Even though we have soul connections it doesn’t mean we are meant to be with the person.

You need to think to yourself is this relationship fair and balanced.

You need to ask yourself if this is what you expected and is it fair.

If you answer no and still feel this bond you must truly decide is this worth your life’s time.

 Letting go does not always mean losing.

You will allow the other person the space to change and feel what life is like without you being at their beckon call.

You can also allow this person to make changes that they were not making.

 Being in a relationship takes work and patience.

 If the other person is not participating to better things then you truly need to ask yourself is it worth it?

In time the spiritual connection will fade and not be as strong.

You may feel them but enjoy the feeling of being free.

You cannot be trapped in another person’s spiritual bondage.

Realize that each person within your life is a lesson and a stepping stone toward your future.

 Everything leads to something (good or bad).

 Don’t allow yourself to be somebody’s safe haven when they are not allowing you to look at them as yours.

We are in a time of Universal change and finding your happiness in life should be the mission.

If it is not making you happy try to change it.

If it doesn’t change then it’s time to let go!

 If it’s meant to be it will come back once you set it free.

Truly let go of relationship bondage's…

You deserve someone’s attention not crumbs of what they chose to leave for you…


Blessings,
Melanie

Transitions

Transitions

We are entering a new energy of balancing our inner emotions, adjustments toward change, and creating harmony within our lives.

We need to let life happen and allow it to develop on its own.

 You are doing your best and need to continue this…

We are in a transitional point of metamorphosing into our life purposes… 

This is for everyone on this planet… 

Trust those nudges of inspiration and thrive…

Let go of the past and rebuild your life on new foundations…

If you do not like your foundations you live on then rebuild…

Do not fall trapped to discouragement…

This is a time to heal our physical and balance our inner emotions…

We are soon to all come out of our current selves…

Blessings,

Melanie